12 HIDDEN SECRETS FOR EVERY FAMILY.

 On the last content, I listed the  the secrets of maintaining a united family which include;

1. True and equal love

2. Impartiality 

3. Regular family gathering 

4. Tolerance 

5. Reject gossips 

6. See yourselves as one

7. Overlook certain minor mistakes

8. Hate quarrelling

9. Avoid curse statements

10. Prayers 

11. Don't overlook each member 

12. Share things in common

Today, I shall be considering how all these listed factors can contribute in making your family what it is supposed to be. Let's dive in together:

                  TRUE AND EQUAL  LOVE

When an equal amount of love is demonstrated by the father, mother, uncle and aunties to each member 

of the immediate family, it goes a long way to bind the children in such family together. This is because 

non of them will felt like been cheated. It makes them to see themselves as having equal importance 

in the family. To this there will be no room for; envy, jealousy, gossip, hatred, quarreling and so many other odd experiences that can jeopardize the social, psychological and economic progress of that family.

True love in the family talks about love without hypocrisy, that is to say you don't love child  A  more than child  B because of the things you are benefiting or you are going to benefit from  A  and vice versa. Similarly, the children don't love  Dad more than Mum because of the things they are gaining from Dad which they are not giving the opportunity to gain from Mum  and vice versa. In such a suitation, such family will seem to be undergoing what i captioned  politically disintegrated family. In such an atmospheric family condition,love, peace and unity will be far fetched and such a family finds it difficult to make progress in every ramification.

Equal love,on the other hand talks about love without segregation or sentiment. It implies that in a family of four chilrden; A, B, C, D,

if unity and peace must be exprienced all the day long as the parents, the level of love shown to A must nbe extended to B, similarly to C and D not taking cogizant of the age, gender, or physical appearance of any of the children. Thesame is applicable to the children. Observing and putting this into action is certainly going to improve and restore the unity and peace which has deserted many families.

In conclusion, True and Equal Love is the foundation upon which blessings, progress, open doors, prosperity and long life is built.

In the next content, I shall be considering the second factor that can help in uniting a family together. 

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