ANOTHER SECRET EVERY FAMILY MUST KNOW

By AGUWA IHEARIOCHI AMBROSE (NWASIR AGUWA) NWASIRAGUWA BLOG - March 20, 2025

Dearly beloved, we give glory to the almighty for so far we are progressing in this article.

we has been talking about the secrete of maintaining a united long lasting family.

Before we dive into todays discussion, I will like you to understand that this article is not just meant for the married men and women but also for the single, who are yet to enter into the world of marriage, not mistaking; the youths and young people can also derive benefits from this in so much that everyone belongs to one family or another.

Last time, we talked about: True and Equal love we saw how both can play their respective parts in keeping a family united. Today, I want to discuss with you on the second factor that plays another crucial role in sustaining unity in our families. So, let's dive in together.

Here, we are talking about;

impartiality

By definition impartiality means not supporting an individual or a group.

What this simply means is to render equal support for both individuals or groups and anything less than this can be termed partiality. Partiality, has a lot to damage in any sector of human existence, ranging from government sector down to our families. But within the scope of this content, I will only focus on the family, this is because socialization laid its foundation on our families.

To this end, any family that desire to enjoy a stable level of peace and unity among her members must hate partiality and vice versa.

This simply means that the parents must show equal treatment to the kids. For instance a child A committed an offence and the other child B committed a directly similar offence.

Note that while you are handling the case for child B, he/she will try to recount how his brother/sister was treated on the day of his/her own crime. So, if child B was able to notice any slight difference in the magnitude of he punishment given to him/her even if B may be the elder, automatically he/she will term it that Dad or Mum or any other person that handle the both cases is partial in the judgement and what follows this is hatred, anger, malice both against child A and against the handler of the cases.

Areas Of Partiality In The Family Which may have grave consequences

The following are the areas I have noticed impartial treatment in our families based on my personal research, observation and experience:

1. In Gift sharing among the children.

2. In Love showing to the children.

3. In appreciation of the children after doing something.

4. In response of parents to their kids greetings.

5. In food sharing.

6. In education of the children.

7. In assignment of works to the children.

8. In Closeness and interaction with the children.

9. In giving attention to the children.

10. In discipling the children.

In summary, partiality is a very dangerous tool that have the tendency and capability of dismounting and excavating the peaceful foundation of any family and renders such family scattered. Whereas in the atmosphere of impartiality, a peaceful, united and progressing family is made. The mathematics is like thus;

Family progress = Love + Unity - (Partiality)

Equity

In our next discussion we share be talking about the third and important factor that helps to keep any family united. Stay connected and enjoy a happy family full of progress and love.

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