ANOTHER WEAPON THAT CAN DESTROY FAMILY PEACE.

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    Dear members of Nwasir Aguwa New Blog, as we have been talking about maintaining unity in our families for a sustainable progress, growth and development, here comes another important factor to be considered. 

Today, most families have not just been left undeveloped but also have being left scattered and miserable just because of this crucial factor which we want to consider in today's lecture.

  Which factor are we actually talking about here?

                                       The negative impact of gossip in our families:

Gossip defined as an informal talk about other peoples private life in an unkind or untrue manner don't just only affect families but organizations, business centers, associations, government bodies, individuals and any other social group. But as useful, I will only limit our today's lecture within the scope of this blog content that is; our families.

You know that I have find pleasure in  talking about our families because that is the foundation of every other aspects or levels of socialization. Thus, socialization have it's bearing from the family. At this point, let's dive in together.

Apart from the other factors which we have consider within this blog, this one today seems to be more dangerous and inimical to the families unity.

This is because any time it sets in within any family, the consequences are more than you may assume.

                How does this start?

Any time any member of the family Father, Mother, Children and others begin to reveal their family privacy to an outsider get ready for gossips. To this, the one you may consider as friend out there may be used as an instrument of distraction, I don't want to say destruction to the unity of the family.

Imagine the husband or the wife exposing or discussing their secret family issues and matters to the people outside who cannot even contribute a percentage to the solution of those issues. At that point gossip will set in , either against the husband or the wife. 

On a similar note, when the children go outside and be discussing  their family secret agenda with those they may see as friends, it may bring about gossip. In this case, the so called friend may begin to contribute some ideas that may not move well with the family's unity.

Meanwhile, I don't just say that discussing our issues with our friends isn't good, but I mean revealing the family privacy to an outsider especially those that have no positive solution to offer. Doing that is like exposing your bank details and password to a fraudster.

So then, we live in a world where offence against each other is inevitable. That is to say even when the degree of your love and likeness for someone is 100% or anything more, at the same time expect to be offended one day and some day. Sometimes when such arose, either the husband or the wife will now forget the days of love and likeness and now see it as the golden opportunity to reveal every errors of the past to the outsiders and sometimes he/she will include the things that doesn't seem to be true to make the gossip sweeter. To this the unity that ones existed plus the love will gradually fade away.

Similarly, when the children are offended by either mum or dad and they refuse to understand that love without offences is not complete, such children will forget the long days of love shown to them by their parents and in lack of this knowledge they begin to say certain unspeakable things against mum or dad to the outsiders. The enemy sees it as an opportunity to set in and disrupt the unity, peace and progress of certain family.

In summary, if there is any peace gossip should be mentioned, it shouldn't be in our dear families.

Therefore beloved husband, wife and children be ready to accept any offence that may arise within the circumference of your family either from each member or the other and don't see it as an opportunity to 

let the outsider to gain access into your families password, privacy and security pattern as this can be more deadly than death itself.

Remember your family, your precious investment.

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