IF YOU LOVE YOUR FAMILY, READ THIS.

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                                    Nwasir - The Professional Self-taught Web Developer of the Eastern Nigeria

As we are trying to ensure that peace, love, unity, happiness, joy and progress can find a dwelling place in our families, here comes another must know secret and key that have a part to contribute in order to actualize this.

That is to say, amongst all the factors we have just considered so far, this particular one though may not be on the top, but occupy a very relevant and significance position in taking our families to a greater height when it comes to unity, peace, love and so on.

What we are talking about here is the ability to Overlook Certain Minor Mistakes that may arise in the course of raising your precious family.

To overlook means to see something that is wrong but you ignore it.

It is gotten from the two words over and look which also means to look over, That is, to do as if you didn't see even when you saw every details. And here we are not talking about overlooking everything but the minor mistakes. When I say minor, I mean something that is too negligible or not so significance.

As you can believe with me, you know that every aspect of human life and existence is full of mistakes. And mistakes on the other hand doesn't actually mean failure. But sometimes so many people see mistakes as failure and in this, they don't think about corrections. When you understand that every mistake a man can make is for correction, you makes room for progress.

To this end, I will like you to understand with me that in every level of social - cultural class any man may find himself/herself, always expect mistakes. 

But in such case, you don't have to commit suicide and die before your time but you have to  give room for corrections that's how life will continue. This is because even if you commit suicide and die before your time, it doesn't take away mistakes from the earth.  Understand that the same mistake that made you to kill yourself, lives to be repeated by others. But when you correct it in yourself, you lives to save others from it.

Now coming to our families, mistakes are daily common experience which can come from either the Husband, the Wife or even the Children. From here you now understand why they say "Nobody Is Above Mistakes" but I now say Everybody Is Under Correction. When every family member understand this, it will help in handling certain common mistakes that may raise their heads in our families.

Another thing you must understand here is that mistakes are critical issues that can only be handle in a very technical manner, if not it may escalate to something unexpected especially when it comes to do with family matters. This takes me to classify mistakes that people make daily into types, so that you can have proper understanding of the target of this blog.

                      KINDS OF MISTAKES:

If I classify mistakes that people makes everyday, especially in our families, I will say that we have:

1. Common Mistakes.

2. Unusual Mistakes.

3. Minor Mistakes.

4. Major Mistakes.

 Since I am limiting  my perspective within the scope of this blog content that is; our families, I will therefore explain each of the above types of mistakes relative to our families.

                                What Are Common Mistakes:

Relative to our families, common mistakes are mistakes which always repeat itself either from the father, the mother or the children or any other member of our extended family.

For instance, the parents may send a child to go and buy chocolate and he/she went there and forgot what  he/she supposed to have bought and return home with peak milk. You will notice that such a child will always repeat such mistakes for sometimes until he/she begins to understand the nutritional different between the two set of food items. Now if the parents lack the psychological knowledge of what such child is struggling with, they may thought that the correction is just punishing the child. Yes, the child will receive and endure the punishment, but believe me next time the same mistake will also be repeated by the same child.

Similarly, common mistakes is not just synonymous with a child, most adults repeat the same

kind of mistakes for so many times before they can understand how to avoid such mistakes.

Thus, common mistakes are not just controlled or avoided in the arena of punishment but try consciousness as an adult but for the children, teach them and give them time, growth will take care of that.

                                    What Are Unusual Mistakes:   

Relative to  our families, unusual mistakes are mistakes which may occur my the father, the mother or the children but not in a regular basis. That is, it is not periodical or repeated.

Such mistakes may happen accidental or unconsciously. 

For instance the child who has been doing the same work perfectly every day in the family, like washing of dishes may accidentally loose focus one day during the same work and the dish fall and break. This does not happen often with that child. But you will discover that if such occurrence is not technically handled, it can give rise to another more terrible mistake from either parents.

It is because of this category of mistake that brought us into today's topic.

              How then can this be managed without further dangerous predicaments?

1. Overlook.

2. Don't act immediately.

3. Be patient.

4. Calm down.

5. Endure.

The truth remains that as the mistake has happened, even if you decide to act in a hash manner, it has no contribution in reversing the ugly situation but rather, it may lead to another deadly mistake that may be more devastating. 

                      Minor Mistakes.

These are mistakes that are too negligible and too simple to be overlooked. They may take the form of common or unusual mistakes. That is to say a minor mistake may occur regularly or non periodically. It may occur through any one among the family members. Thus, such mistakes may be too small that they canot cause any harm or regret. But still, these are the mistakes when not handled with care can result to a very deadly and dangerous consequences far greather than it's self. You still discover that what causes major problems and divisions in some of our families sometimes are these minor, negligible mistakes.

Take for instance a man divorcing his wife simply because she  added too much salt or pepper in a meal. This is actually a mistake, but if you ask me, it is a minor mistake that shouldn't even result to anger or beating not to talk of divorce.

Similarly, a child forgetting to take his father's or mothers clothe out of the rain, is another minor mistake that can be easily overlook, but sometimes most parents will have to beat their child and forgot that the rain has fallen today and tomorrow the sun will still appear to dry the same clothe.

Minor mistakes as i told you are too negligible to be overlooked, but sometimes their consequences when not technically handled may be devastating.

Thus, what matters is not just the mistakes people make, but the way by which those mistakes are handled is the major problem here. 

We now move over to the last category of mistake.

                                    Major Mistakes.

These may seem to be the most deadly form of mistakes, they are mistakes  mistakes whose impact are too noticeable. Some of these mistakes my run from a generation of mankind to the following generations. They are not easily forgotten any time they occcured. Their consequences or punishments attached to them may affect people who were not there when the mistakes were made.

Such mistakes may affect almost every aspect of the human activities and programs.

To this, such mistakes take a long period of time before they can be corrected.

Meanwhile, nonmatter the name or nature of the mistake that may occur within the circumference of our families, the way we handle them will go a long way to determine how united our families will remain.

   Thus, in a family setting, we should learn how to overlook some certain minor mistakes. For in so doing, we are giving room for love, unity, peace and progress to continue to abide in our dear families. 

Understand that it is not easy to overlook mistakes because even when you want to forget it, it keeps on reoccurring in your memory. But nonmatter what, overlooking these minor mistakes is more better than reacting to them because the outcome of the reactions  to such mistakes sometimes may be more expensive than neglecting them at their primary stage.

In conclusion, we cannot and don't have to kill ourselves because of our mistakes or the mistake of others, but we can try to look over them, if not for any other thing, for the sake of peace to reign.

Remember, mistakes are the part of life and life itself isn't complete without mistakes.

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